a philosophical approach to self identity

Latin: To seek that which belongs to me

quaero [ˈkʷae̯.roː] to seek

mea [me.a] my, mine

The Quaero Mea Coaching philosophy is based on the concept that we are actually meant to be self centered.

Though it feels counter-intuitive, destructive to all of mankind, and the fundamental reasons for all the evil atrocities on earth … the challenging thought is the opposite.

When we are self centered, we are able to sustain ourselves in ways that we need and want, fulfilling a life that we deeply love.

When we are self centered, we can enter into relationships with abundance, grace and understanding.

When we are self centered, we are able to understand how we can show up in the world and be a benefit, to others as well as ourselves.

When you embrace the idea that this life belongs to you,

for you to fully live and love …

you deepen the relationship with your own innermost being.

You start to seek the things that belong to you, your ambitions, your success, your hope, your wisdom, your determination, your experiences, and even your heartbreaks …

Imagine this actually being true for you …

that all of these things are yours, and all the things you have not yet discovered.

You own them, they are for you to manage and expand and eliminate as you choose.

You can start to seek the invitations hidden in the everyday life to rise through your own unique evolution.

This is not easy and you are not meant to do this without support. You need comrades, witnesses to the pursuit of your longings to help you discover all that you are meant to be.

I am devoted to this …

to escorting you through your battlefields so that you may design your destiny as you seek all that belongs to you.

Kori Hawkes Sych

My style of coaching isn’t high pressure, invasive or with a big over-programed commitment …

I want you to feel like you are walking into a friends home, ready to tell me all about the adventures, the heartbreaks and the doubted victories.

I want you to feel like you can work through some pressing questions, deep contemplations and heavy burdens.

HOW TO GET STARTED:

Get familiar with who I am and what coaching with me is about, why I think it’s so important and what it looks like to work with me.

Also have a look at the ways we can get connected while you are getting comfortable with whether or not you feel I am a fit and if you think I can help you get to where you want to go.

You can also grab a cup of coffee and

settle into some deep thoughts from my blog here:

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING SELF CENTERED AND SELFISH … and why it is so important for our personal and profession growth

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YOU DON’T HAVE TO NECESSARILY BE EXTRAORDINARY - The pressure we put on ourselves keep us from the life that we are working so hard to acquire.

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WHAT ABOUT ME? - Take a moment to give yourself permission and see how important it is to consider yourself.

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